Ionic Bonds (with dot and cross)
In ionic bonding, the participants are ions and they are kept together by the electrostatic force of attraction between oppositely charged ions. What are ions?
Ions are charged particles which are formed when an atom loses or gains electrons
Recall that atoms aim to achieve the stable noble gas configurations (having a fully filled valence shell). Hence, they will try to lose or gain electrons in order to fully fill their valence shell.
Typically, metal atoms lose their valence electrons to achieve the noble gas configuration. As they lose the valence electrons, they will become positively charged. Hence, we say that a positive ion (cation) is formed.
Typically non-metal atoms gain valence electrons to achieve the noble gas configuration. As they gain additional electrons, they will become negatively charged. Hence, we say that a negative ion (anion) is formed.
Depending on the position of the metal/non-metal on the periodic table, they will lose/gain a different number of electrons. Another way of interpreting this: Depending on the number of valence electrons, they will lose/gain a different number of electrons. Some examples to illustrate this:
Consider the element lithium. (metal)
It has an electron configuration of 2.1.
The number of valence electron is 1
It will strive to lose the solo valence electron to end up with an electron configuration of 2.
The end state is: Li+
Consider the element Aluminium. (metal)
It has an electron configuration of 2.8.3.
The number of valence electron is 3
It will strive to lose the 3 valence electrons to end up with an electron configuration of 2.8.
The end state is: Al3+
Consider the element oxygen (non-metal)
It has an electron configuration of 2.6.
The number of valence electron is 6
It will strive to gain 2 electrons to end up with an electron configuration of 2.8
The end state is: O2−
Note: You might wonder why doesn’t it lose 6 valence electrons. It will have a stable electron configuration of 2 as well. This is because it is more energy efficient to gain 2 electrons than to lose 6 electrons. Hence, the situation of losing 6 valance electrons doesn’t happen.
Consider the element Chlorine (non-metal)
It has the electron configuration of 2.8.7
The number of valence electron is 7
It will strive to gain 1 electron to end up with an electron configuration of 2.8.8
The end state is: Cl−.
Ionic Bonding
Ionic bonds are formed between metal atoms and non-metal atoms. During the formation of ionic bonds, valence electrons from the metal atoms are transferred to the non-metal atoms. This results in the formation of positively-charged ions (cations) and negatively-charged ions (anions). Hence, there will be strong electrostatic forces of attraction between the oppositely charged ions which are termed as ionic bonding.
Sodium chloride as an example of ionic bonding
Recall that sodium has an electron configuration of 2.8.1 and chlorine has an electron configuration of 2.8.7
The sodium will want to lose 1 electron while chlorine will want to gain 1 electron